Location, location, location...
So I was inspired to this question by a comment in the last post from the inspirational Stephanie Thornton:
If you were a woman in the 5th century BC, where would you choose to live?
I include anywhere on the planet, not only Greece, or even necessarily the Mediterranean. If the 5th century is too specific, feel free to expand a bit.
My own suggestion would be Tyrrhenia, also called Etruria, home of the Etruscans, because the status of women appears to have been high there. If not Tyrrhenia, then perhaps a south sea island like Vanuatu because I like the place, and life would be relatively easy, if short.